I’m all for interracial love, but even I’m like “hmmm…no” “not today” “maybe not even ever” sometimes with guys of different ethnic or racial background. And it just makes minorities seem pathetic and desperate (even if it was not intended to be) by placing a particular group on a pedestal. >If we don’t expect that of people who we share the same ethnic or racial background with, why do we expect that from other people of a different ethnic or racial background. If he went all supremacist then I will be outraged, but I’m not going to want to force some individual to date me.* *Now if the gay guy of another race is physically hostile to me while turning me down then I will be outraged. We will feel more inclined to date guys who have the same ethnic or racial background as we do. I will feel “all in my feelings” for like a moment, but I wouldn’t feel outrage or demeaned. Not if another gay guy of another ethnic or racial background does not like me. ![]() I as a black gay man will feel much more offended if another black man would not want to go out with me. Their intent for the outrage seems suspicious to me. What is the real intent behind this though? Because I feel like those same individual gay men who complain about “sexual” racism from other gay guys of another race, who may not find them interesting as an individual, are the same ones who will not even consider dating a gay guy of their own race.
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